New Year and a New Me

Well it is the start of a new year. Welcome 2012!!!! I am ready to make this the year. Let's see if I can give you a run down on where things stand. We have been trying for the past year to have a baby. Sounds like fun, right? While yes it is fun practicing it is not fun to face the negative pregnancy tests each month. "They" say it can take a healthy couple a year to conceive, but I always thought we would be over achievers (I guess not). So here we are at the point where "they" say we can seek a little medical help. We have had a few tests run and all seems to be in the normal range. So back to the question at hand.... Why hasn't it happened yet? No one can be sure. We definatley have been giving it a good try. We have been given the option to move on to an RE and get help but we have decided to wait. We will wait until May........ Why? Well it is kind of a long story that maybe someday I will fill you in on, the short version is we have a family cruise scheduled for October 2012 and if I want to go on the cruise I can not be further than 24 weeks along. We will not be preventing in the meantime, so if it happenes it happens but it won't be happening with help until after May, if we have to wait that long.